Does attitude differ with diffrent person, who are obsessed with same aspiration.
It may or may not be the answer. But why this eagerness to find it may one's question. people tends to follow a sucessful person in their achievement, but often forget or fail to identify and impersonate their attitude for attaining the goal. but does that means theydont attaing what they are looking for. One begs for food; One works for food; One steals food. The objective was same, attaining food and the goal being one, quench hunger. So where did the 'ATTITUDE' thign go?
Reminds me of story in 'Mahabhartha Epic', where loard krishna advice about the importance of 'Goal' rather than the 'way' to achieve it. So did it suits what is writen above. At first impression it may seems so. But that statment means to stress only the impolrtance of goal but nothing else. It does not means to take any step or measure to achive a goal, which is unethical or improper, because epics are advises keeping good things in mind. So it does not need to stress about good things in all verses. It is understood.
So where does the 'ATTITUDE' feature now. It is featured from the point of the 'Person in subject to the limit drawn by society / writings / studies / experiences / truth!!
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Tuesday, July 25, 2006
Passive thought of Past
Every fraction of time passes leaving a great lot of happening in the past. or rather it has been made past. how much important are your past and the relevance depends on the importance you gave to the incidents occured. why is some peple have these happenings priceless , while some merely remembers it or try hard to forget? folks says , 'never forget the way you have brought up'. The people behind your mould, the curcumstances, soceity, nature and god. Never forget the trail to which you are what now.
Learned say that incidental thought of past, can make you more mature in the present life. will you forget what were you , when you reach your highest self actualisation point. No is a good answer. Think what happened , in a particular day in the past, every day. Skip if some thing is not worth thinking or painful. But it really clarifies , what you reallly are / were / will be..!
Learned say that incidental thought of past, can make you more mature in the present life. will you forget what were you , when you reach your highest self actualisation point. No is a good answer. Think what happened , in a particular day in the past, every day. Skip if some thing is not worth thinking or painful. But it really clarifies , what you reallly are / were / will be..!
Wednesday, July 19, 2006
Why block the Dreams
The freedom to dream is to freedom to speech. Why block it. The reason behind inconsistent stature is the misunderstanding in knowledge of subject in issue. Why the gov has to go to that extend when it is the same circumstances in mobile phones as well as emails. will they ever stop such communication methodology, backed by sheer freedom of speech.
There is no possibility of stopage of such feared activities , which the big brother fears, even though they succeeds in bringing some kind of constraiing or obstacles in bloging as such over a small patch of land in this big globe.
It never helps to stop the dreaming of a large comminuty or nation. it will never stop the human mind to dream at his free will. Will we come to a suppressed inhibitation where the dreams are buit or mastered by powerful ornaments created by ourself. Let us hope not so.
There is no possibility of stopage of such feared activities , which the big brother fears, even though they succeeds in bringing some kind of constraiing or obstacles in bloging as such over a small patch of land in this big globe.
It never helps to stop the dreaming of a large comminuty or nation. it will never stop the human mind to dream at his free will. Will we come to a suppressed inhibitation where the dreams are buit or mastered by powerful ornaments created by ourself. Let us hope not so.
Tuesday, April 25, 2006
Useless to Useful, in a Mystical Touch.
A fragment from a great IJC Speaker. Actually a person is trying to sell his old violin in a street in France. But nobody seems to be interested in this old and dusty piece of musical instrument even though the price was quite low. Suddenly an old man comes and play the violin mystically and walks away quietly.Te scene changes. People crowded around this young man and the violin actually goes in auction at a big price. For a moment, the thing that was useless in past was suddenly converted to a priced possession. The caring, proficient, and nurtured touch of the old man who played the violin did the magic.It is possible by us also. Your caring, proficient, and nurtured touch can induce magical touch in others and our own life to realize our dreams and wishes.
A fragment from a great IJC Speaker. Actually a person is trying to sell his old violin in a street in France. But nobody seems to be interested in this old and dusty piece of musical instrument even though the price was quite low. Suddenly an old man comes and play the violin mystically and walks away quietly.Te scene changes. People crowded around this young man and the violin actually goes in auction at a big price. For a moment, the thing that was useless in past was suddenly converted to a priced possession. The caring, proficient, and nurtured touch of the old man who played the violin did the magic.It is possible by us also. Your caring, proficient, and nurtured touch can induce magical touch in others and our own life to realize our dreams and wishes.
Monday, March 13, 2006
Supression & Repression.
During a discussion recently a person I know was seen adamant in asserting the negative role of repressed outlook in successful trait development. I was content to note that this subject is been in lime light; thanks to numerous Human Resource Management, motivation and counseling programs, which are now at easy reach.
Why does this repressed thought is so powerful yet so destructive?
Any repressed or subdued thought or feeling is negative or destructive when it is of adverse objective. Whereas a positive thought suppressed can be powerful, if directed in its due course.
Now the question here is, how we will differentiate the adverse one from the positive or harmless one. I said harmless because some are not negative as well as fruitful, which renders it harmless.
I may give here a classic example of a harmless looking but a negative subdued thought that has a handicapped outcome in a healthy human trait.
A student from a poor family was forced to wear his elder brothers shirt, since he didn?t had a good one for school that day. The shirt hangs right to his toes of his leg, since his elder brother had a much bigger physique, giving a look of a overcoat. The boy is greeted with mocking & laughter at school, among his friends, neighbors & others. This creates a shock, where the boy identifies his inability to groom in good dress like his fellow friends. This shock where the boy identifies his shortcoming, is the reason for the start of repress.
That was a flash back. Today that boy is 25 years old young man & earning handsomely. That man has 6 cupboards of costly dress. Change dress at least four times a day. Spend 70% of his earning on dress, costumes & other ready-made accessories. If any one asks him why he is doing this, he has no answers. But his parents? sure do has the answer, since they remember the long back incident that took place in boy?s child hood.
The handicapped behavior of amassing cloths & dress was triggered from a silent place of his subconscious mind. Deep there a small message was inhibited saying, ?Good dress & good grooming was inevitable for a acceptable life.
Craving good dress is sure not a wrong thing and looks harmless. But the incident, circumstances & awkward result it all together created render it negative / destructive. A simple self-interrogation in ones own behavior or character can reveal a lot & gives room for self-correction
So?why do we switch cars in short period even if it?s of better quality?why did mother Theresa determined to stay back in India caring the poor& needy? Sure some are destructive some are positive.
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Why does this repressed thought is so powerful yet so destructive?
Any repressed or subdued thought or feeling is negative or destructive when it is of adverse objective. Whereas a positive thought suppressed can be powerful, if directed in its due course.
Now the question here is, how we will differentiate the adverse one from the positive or harmless one. I said harmless because some are not negative as well as fruitful, which renders it harmless.
I may give here a classic example of a harmless looking but a negative subdued thought that has a handicapped outcome in a healthy human trait.
A student from a poor family was forced to wear his elder brothers shirt, since he didn?t had a good one for school that day. The shirt hangs right to his toes of his leg, since his elder brother had a much bigger physique, giving a look of a overcoat. The boy is greeted with mocking & laughter at school, among his friends, neighbors & others. This creates a shock, where the boy identifies his inability to groom in good dress like his fellow friends. This shock where the boy identifies his shortcoming, is the reason for the start of repress.
That was a flash back. Today that boy is 25 years old young man & earning handsomely. That man has 6 cupboards of costly dress. Change dress at least four times a day. Spend 70% of his earning on dress, costumes & other ready-made accessories. If any one asks him why he is doing this, he has no answers. But his parents? sure do has the answer, since they remember the long back incident that took place in boy?s child hood.
The handicapped behavior of amassing cloths & dress was triggered from a silent place of his subconscious mind. Deep there a small message was inhibited saying, ?Good dress & good grooming was inevitable for a acceptable life.
Craving good dress is sure not a wrong thing and looks harmless. But the incident, circumstances & awkward result it all together created render it negative / destructive. A simple self-interrogation in ones own behavior or character can reveal a lot & gives room for self-correction
So?why do we switch cars in short period even if it?s of better quality?why did mother Theresa determined to stay back in India caring the poor& needy? Sure some are destructive some are positive.
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Thursday, March 09, 2006
Base For Dreams.
We know all our wishes may not be fruitful. But cant we segregate the possible one's from immpossible, or least probable. The self ridicule us by interpreting motivation theories with reality and realizaton. I dont claim resposibiltiy on teacher, parents or any one who induced the " Go and get the Highest" Kind of attitude. Nor i assert my conjecture against environment we live, the competition, the freedom or mere the attitude of new mankind. The mistake was with us. The mistake of not being satisfied and content of what we have.
What are the results of this inappropriate symmetry between physical reality and subconsious Psycho-Attitude, induced or repressed in a unknown part of your brain? Anwer is simple ! It is the inabilty to Synchronize the present state of life with the only availabe or derserving resources.
Here resourses means physical or mental, ranging from wealth, financial, spiritual, worldly pleasures, relationship, fame, glory, recognition ar anything you want to own in this world. Dreaming is intended to ignite the drive for a deserving go. A wish is weaved in a value based manner, equally accommodating the tradition, culture, religion, social and Human nature. Thats why we were wrong when we wished to invent leathel weapons, we were worng when we dream about conquering another man's territory, we were wrong when we dream about having another mans wife, we were wrong when we dream and applied for a job which we dont deserve, we were wrong when we dream of extravaganza even if we cant afford it. Think about it.
We know all our wishes may not be fruitful. But cant we segregate the possible one's from immpossible, or least probable. The self ridicule us by interpreting motivation theories with reality and realizaton. I dont claim resposibiltiy on teacher, parents or any one who induced the " Go and get the Highest" Kind of attitude. Nor i assert my conjecture against environment we live, the competition, the freedom or mere the attitude of new mankind. The mistake was with us. The mistake of not being satisfied and content of what we have.
What are the results of this inappropriate symmetry between physical reality and subconsious Psycho-Attitude, induced or repressed in a unknown part of your brain? Anwer is simple ! It is the inabilty to Synchronize the present state of life with the only availabe or derserving resources.
Here resourses means physical or mental, ranging from wealth, financial, spiritual, worldly pleasures, relationship, fame, glory, recognition ar anything you want to own in this world. Dreaming is intended to ignite the drive for a deserving go. A wish is weaved in a value based manner, equally accommodating the tradition, culture, religion, social and Human nature. Thats why we were wrong when we wished to invent leathel weapons, we were worng when we dream about conquering another man's territory, we were wrong when we dream about having another mans wife, we were wrong when we dream and applied for a job which we dont deserve, we were wrong when we dream of extravaganza even if we cant afford it. Think about it.
Thursday, March 02, 2006
Tall Dreams ...But Short Reality..!!
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We have taller buildings but shorter tempers;
wider freeways but narrower viewpoints;
We spent more but have less; we buy more but enjoy it less;
We’ve been all the way to the moon and back but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbour;
We’ve captured outer space but not inner space;
We’ve split the atom but not our prejudice;
We write more but learn less; plan more but accomplish less.
We’ve learned to rush but not to wait;
We have higher incomes but lower morals;
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies but have less communication.
We are long on quantity but not on quality.
..We really dream Tall..but the reality remains Short..!!! Suraj V
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